When you put up a post like this (click on this) , you always know it’s a lady that would be the first to mail you for something of that sort but when it is a man and a married man you go awwwww… Hello Obehi, I have been following your post and I am really loving it. As per the surprises for my lovely wife, it is not really one of my strongest point but an angle I’m looking forward to improve, Ok,down to my question, please I want to give my lovely wife a wonderful valentine present but dont know what and for the record I am not in the country till way after valentine….Thank you and looking forward to interesting ideas, lolll. So let us help him…Ladies share your surprise fantasy and men, help a brother…
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Aawww, this sounds so sweet, especially for the fact that you’re not in the country but want to make the effort. Women love words, sweet words that come from the heart. My suggestion is that you do a short video with pictures of your best times together. Include short write ups about your memory of each of the photos and how being with her made you feel or why that day was so special. At the end pledge your undying love for her. After pledging your love, you can throw in a ‘miserable’ pic of yourself and let her know that that is how you feel when she’s not with you (this is if that’s the case). If there’s a romantic song you both like, or a song that speaks your heart for her or her favourite romantic song, put it to play at the background of the video. Women also love gifts so be sure to get her a gift alongside this. Try not to get something random, get something based on her personality and the things she loves. Is there something she’s had her eyes on for a while?
A really heart warming note and a gift (please should be sexy and bring tears to the eyes, not necessarily expensive), would do for some women….. your wife’s love language could help, and if you are not too sure about that, a lil assignment, sit back and think of something she daydreamed about, or gushed about and you are sure you can afford, better still if shes on Instagram, you need to trail the pictures she likes get your idea from that. If she follows bellanaija well you have a lot of pictures from the wedding section to go through and steal an idea from. All the best.
Lovely suggestions from the commenters above. I don’t think I have anything more to add that to make it thoughtful, something she will appreciate. You know her more than we do. All the best. E
Aawww, this sounds so sweet, especially for the fact that you’re not in the country but want to make the effort. Women love words, sweet words that come from the heart. My suggestion is that you do a short video with pictures of your best times together. Include short write ups about your memory of each of the photos and how being with her made you feel or why that day was so special. At the end pledge your undying love for her. After pledging your love, you can throw in a ‘miserable’ pic of yourself and let her know that that is how you feel when she’s not with you (this is if that’s the case). If there’s a romantic song you both like, or a song that speaks your heart for her or her favourite romantic song, put it to play at the background of the video. Women also love gifts so be sure to get her a gift alongside this. Try not to get something random, get something based on her personality and the things she loves. Is there something she’s had her eyes on for a while?
First of all, what’s your budget?? Secondly, do you want the surprise to be while you are away or when you get back?
A really heart warming note and a gift (please should be sexy and bring tears to the eyes, not necessarily expensive), would do for some women….. your wife’s love language could help, and if you are not too sure about that, a lil assignment, sit back and think of something she daydreamed about, or gushed about and you are sure you can afford, better still if shes on Instagram, you need to trail the pictures she likes get your idea from that. If she follows bellanaija well you have a lot of pictures from the wedding section to go through and steal an idea from. All the best.
Lovely suggestions from the commenters above. I don’t think I have anything more to add that to make it thoughtful, something she will appreciate. You know her more than we do. All the best. E
Hello people let him get some sexy lingerie for her like the ones on campusdcode.blogspot.com lol!