This is another original on Bride2mom blog, just like ‘Dear God‘… We will be asking ladies and men questions and it is best they answer to make us understand them better, so if you have any question that bothers or baffles you about ladies or men, this is your opportunity to vent, let out some steam or simply ask them and please let us answer sincerely as well…. For example you (typically the ladies) can say, “Dear Men, do we have to spell everything out before you get a hint of what we are trying to say?”Dear women (usually asked by men), “When you act this way, what are you trying to communicate?” Please o! Post your questions/comments on anonymous basis; because I cannot start settling “he said, she said…”, except you really don’t mind being identified. To comment as “Anonymous”, after typing your email on the comment field, fill the name column, as “Anonymous” don’t worry, emails are not published or seen. So do you have any question for the guys or ladies?
7 comments on “Dear Men/Women…Why do we act the way we do?”
Dear men, I will like to know why a guy will see a lady he likes, show her all the green light but never ask her for a dating relationship?
Dear men, I will like to know y u like claiming u knw it all,instead of understanding the situation first , u just feel that you hve mre experience, therefore it has to be done u way… It’s even worse wen it’s a very sensitive issue… Cn’t just get it.
Well I guess it’s just the male ego thing. Everyman is born with a portion of it but it’s up to him to know how to control it and allow for other opinions. I think it takes a mature mind to listen to others and not be too quick to ‘know it all’ and yes…I am a man.
Sometimes those so called ‘green lights’ are the guy just being himself. Just another regular nice guy. But the thing with ladies is they can be so caught up in the fantasy world that they misunderstand some of his actions. This happened to me many times too. For me the way out, is to realise that at certain stage in a man’s life, you can’t just be ‘nice’ to a single girl if you are also single and eligible.
Some guys are just too shy to pop the question. Am a guy and know what some brodas pass tru on this matter. My advise to girls in this position is…If the light is green enough, ask some leading questions that will make him say what he really has in mind. Yes I know the guy should have taken the lead but if he is not sure how to, then some help from the loving lady won’t be turned down. But ol girl, be sure first o.
Dear men, I will like to know why a guy will see a lady he likes, show her all the green light but never ask her for a dating relationship?
Ita actually simple. Its because the guy has not just made up his mind. He is probably still being distracted by other options.
Dear men, I will like to know y u like claiming u knw it all,instead of understanding the situation first , u just feel that you hve mre experience, therefore it has to be done u way… It’s even worse wen it’s a very sensitive issue… Cn’t just get it.
Well I guess it’s just the male ego thing. Everyman is born with a portion of it but it’s up to him to know how to control it and allow for other opinions. I think it takes a mature mind to listen to others and not be too quick to ‘know it all’ and yes…I am a man.
Sometimes those so called ‘green lights’ are the guy just being himself. Just another regular nice guy. But the thing with ladies is they can be so caught up in the fantasy world that they misunderstand some of his actions. This happened to me many times too. For me the way out, is to realise that at certain stage in a man’s life, you can’t just be ‘nice’ to a single girl if you are also single and eligible.
Some guys are just too shy to pop the question. Am a guy and know what some brodas pass tru on this matter. My advise to girls in this position is…If the light is green enough, ask some leading questions that will make him say what he really has in mind. Yes I know the guy should have taken the lead but if he is not sure how to, then some help from the loving lady won’t be turned down. But ol girl, be sure first o.
The bobo fit dey fear rejection nah. Lol