When I listen to songs, I  try to find a story in it, remember that Neyo’s song, “I just wonder, do you ever think of me anymore…”, well it was a song to his ex and I usually ask myself, “what kind of question is that, if you guys are over and the person has moved on why keep tabs on their lives… SCENE 1 When you are not over your Ex Most of us have that one guy/girl we feel was supposed to be “the one” that we kind of let slip away from our lives. Maybe through our attitude or some other stuff probably bigger than us…Years have gone by, our ex’s have moved on. We also claim we have moved on but we cannot help but wonder what is or would have been with our ex. How he is doing and if they ever think same about you? Some of us because fate has dealt us a bad hand and we probably feel that was the one that got away, some others have a great guy/girl in their lives but just can’t stop thinking what life would have been with the ex… the one that we wished we stayed with and we built a home with, we try to continue friendship with the ex that is pretty much non-existent and it kills you more if you find out he is married or dating. You try to satisfy yourself by pointing out all the girls weak points to your friends, pretty much stalk her on every social media hoping that would give you some satisfaction of some sort, some may go as far as  being her best friend so you just know what is happening in their lives…I am not saying it is wrong to be friend’s with your ex or his girlfriend /spouse( topic for another day), just do it for the right reasons. It is time to grow up… Say goodbye to the one that got away. images SCENE 2 When you cannot get over your Partners ex So you meet this guy, he falls in love with you and wants to make you a wife but you cannot get over his ex. You just want to know if she was the one that got away. If he doesn’t trash her or tell you a grave sin she committed, then you just keep thinking he still has something for her, He cannot do without her and it turns into a full-blown chaos waiting to happen. All of a sudden she becomes your competition, if you find out they are friends… Do you know the reason the relationship did not work out? Something was missing there and it definitely was not meant to be. He is content and happy with you and in all fairness you also have your own past… Why get insecure? Look past what would have been and handle what is… The present is enough work on its own to add the past to it.  If you feel insecure and have to discuss with your partner then please do and when he’s assured you, drop it. You are where you are meant to be and you are the best fit for your partner. There is no need and no sense behind mourning the one that got away, embrace life and  enjoy what you have got…  
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