I had a friend spend a weekend in my house; it was very wonderful as she came with her fiancé. They got married that weekend and I was privileged to witness it (yep! I signed the wedding certificate). Just incase you do not know, I am crazy for romantic stuff so I paid close attention to them through out their stay and of course you could tell they were in love, little kisses here and there, cuddles, whispers and laughter filled the house. While carefully observing them (hahaha! aproko like me) the topic for this week came to mind.
It is beautiful when you see a couple hugging, cuddling, kissing, passing compliments, whispering and laughing at each other’s jokes, (sometimes they are not even funny set . Can you remember the hand holding, the head resting on his shoulders, like your head was too heavy for you to carry on your own, the tilting towards him while driving like the driving was distracting the bonding process (I did all that)? I particularly remember while driving with my fiancé then, I would hold his hand so he gets to turn the steering wheel with just one hand (bad driving by the way, but who cares?) and when he needs to use the other hand, he would say something like “baby please give me a minute” (hahaha)…those things were really cute but when last did I do that, when last did I even sit in front while hubby drives? It’s always at the back seat with the baby (that has recently changed though).
The way I see it, the little things make life worthwhile, keeps the marriage young and beautiful. If while you are reading this, you are thinking “oh I can remember those days” or you see a couple hugging, kissing and you think “aww, they must be newly weds” then you are among those that forgot those sweet little things while the marriage grew or felt it was no longer as important as back in the days. Please it is very important and not too late to start all over again. If this was never in your relationship, now is a good time to ignite the flame of romance…C’mon show that brother or sister some love and let us know how it goes. Trust me, it helps the relationship, makes it feel youthful and fuels the passion…. please do not forget the little things.
…What were the little things you did and what are the things you do now?
Nice one!
Nice one! Obeeeee….. hmmm i’m guilty of the bad-driving-promotion oh! Lol!! If I may add: NEVER wait for your partner to be the one to remember these little things, make the move, do the unexpected he/she can only learn to reciprocate when you show/remind them how sweet the little things were….. & even if it takes a while keep doing it!! You’re not doing it for his/her sake ure doing it for the sake of what you both have, shared and share #wink! #xoxo…soniamazing
That is very true Sonia, sometimes we want to wait for our partners to do the things they did before, just reminding them of how it made or makes you feel can do the magic and instead of telling them how they have stopped being who they were, just do it as Sonia said and the person will respond.
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Hmm….got me thinking. Nice one.
I’m so guilty of the bad driving thing. My hubby has this stuff he does,in the morning. if he wakes up before me, he keeps walking around till I finally open my eyes, as soon as he sees my eyes open he starts this weird, crazy dance.Trust me it’s the worst combination of etighi,azonto and moon walk all at once and it cracks me up.If he’s running late for work he gives me the short version. Imagine waking up to that almost every morning, it sounds silly but It makes my day. I can move mountains for my guy
Awwwwwww….That’s very luvly
@ Efeosa…So loving your hubby’s style. Wish u guys the best.
I likee 🙂 and u r right, the little things do matter a lot,in fact I believe it’s the little things that actually counts. Bravo obehi
Sometimes the roughness of the journey overtime slowly kills the fun of the little things, however it takes conscious continues effort of the couple to keep things hot and fun. Nice one dear.
nice one . esos nice style