Why is he irritated and angry when we talk about his ex?
categories: Relationships
The problem is, anytime we talk about his ex, he gets so angry and irritated! I feel its not normal.
Please I need your advice, when a guy gets angry and irritated when you talk about his ex, what does it mean?
He may probably still be hurting from his experience with her, be it her fault, his or third party. So I suggest you control your emotions my dear and keep being friends until he can tell you about her and the TRUTH. Please stay as friends and be real enough to tell him you are uncomfortable with his inability to talk about her. Then probably help him get over her, if that is what is needed. Please don’t take the risk of agreeing to take it to the next level, when he may be hoping to get back to her. Just my advice.
I think it depends on what made him leave the relationship. If his heart was broken by the ex, he may just want to forget about the past and move on. Your continuous asking could just be reopening wounds he eagerly wants to heal. My advise is… that you focus on what you share and leave his ex out of your relationship. Find out what you can about his personality through your friendship and relationship not necessarily what his deal was with his ex. As you grow in the relationship, gist from gist will lead you to his ex story and if indeed he was hurt, he might have healed and open up without much ado. Concerned citizen.
Hmmm. Tough one. Maybe he has skeletons in his closet. What’s so difficult about talking about his ex though. But hope u no dey take fight ask am sha? Just get the headline reason not necessarily details from him. then stylishly confirm from someone else that knew them. If you are comfortable with ur private investigation. Then u can go ahead to d next level. But biko don’t make it an issue, else u go just make my broda para.