Omugwo – When our parents come to take care of our babies (their grands kids) as soon as they are born. They stay for a while (usually 3month but some may even stay for a year), hoping in their hearts that we will do same to our kids. In those days it was like you could […]
Happy new month guys!! it’s already the second half of the year, I know some of you are wondering where I have been? Hmmm… Where do I start? I told you guys I was relocating to Nigeria after close to a year in the Middle East. Remember I also mentioned how busy I would be […]
We pray you never need these tips, but I will advice we all read this, you may render help through what you have learnt to a victim. Rape is an invasive event of traumatic evil, it’s a crime of power,domination and control with the use of sex. You were victimized and now you are […]
In the world at large, kids sleep in their parents room especially during infancy but in Africa it is commonplace to have even 5 years or older still sharing a bed with the parents, putting the hapless parents in awkward lying positions., Some parents no longer sleep in the traditional vertical position on the bed, they rather lie horizontally with folded legs so the bed […]
This is the part three of this Child sexual abuse series and whenever I read it, I don’t know, I learn alot and get so sad at what is happening in the world…Please read and be aware, only awareness can help us reduce and hopefully stop this epidemic. What are the effects of CSA? The problem […]
Simi sent this write up in and I am eager to hear your thoughts on this. I am an aspiring ‘house Chef’, surrounded by married men at work (all male colleagues), and few female friends (don’t blame me, blame the shifting trend in loyalty these days). I have been advised by my colleagues […]
As I look around the space I have called home for almost a year, the cartons everywhere indicating that it is time to go, the environment and the ambience I have come to cherish and love, I can’t believe this is it, this is the end of my stay in Oman, wow! time moves so […]
We woke up to find a guest on our matrimonial bed, who is she? How did she get here? We looked around to get a clue but there was nothing… how could we have slept without knowing when the guest tiptoed to our bed, what was she doing here? she has got to talk, should […]
This article was for yesterday but I did not get around sending it. Chai! Today has been so stressful guys, I really had a plan to share a new story today called “The guest on my matrimonial bed”…see gist! But I have been so stressed, I am relocating back to Nigeria, Yes o , Oman […]
Personally I have no problem with the parable ” the grass is not greener on the other side” but I just believe there might be some greener grasses in some place else but those grasses are not fertile for you!’ I was talking to someone recently and she told me how she was tired of […]