I am careful what I let into my mind and I think for a mindset to totally change , you have to be careful what you listen to, what you watch, who you let into your head space and what you even gloss over. My parents can send loads of forwarded messages on Whatsapp, just […]
I love cooking and really intend making a few bucks from it, after all, the bible says, ‘your gift would make a way for you’ right? I have tried the cooking business several times and have come to realise that I had to know more than just cooking, there is a business within that business […]
To every lady Every mother, Every potential mother, Those believing, Those that foster Those that have angels above… Happy Mother’s Day! We are all amazing at being who we are. I love you. XOXO, OBEE.
During the week, Lady A, was hurt on her lips by babyJ, I did not really know how bad it was but i heard her cry and thought it was just them having a disagreement. Some minutes later, they came downstairs and Lady A was with an umbrella, I was trying to tease her but […]
There was a season in my daughter’s life where she kept asking, mummy do you love me? The first time she did t, I was so worried because i wasn’t sure where the question came from, I immediately sat her down and told her how much i loved her, how nothing could change it and […]
We go into marriage with various expectations and some of those expectations becomes reality while a lot of them never come to pass. I want to ask ladies that are going to be married someday soon, what are your expectations from marriage and to those that are already married, what were those expectations you had and […]
The world makes us think that we need to get to a certain place at a particular time, then we would have achieved greatness. If you check it out, we are constantly ticking boxes based on the expectation intentionally or unintentionally placed on us by society, friends, media etc when we tick that box, it […]
A letter I wrote to Mr Possible when he travelled. it was like three months into having a second kid at the time, the change was huge for me, I sincerely needed a break but how was that going to happen? I had to still be a wife and a mother to both girl. Then […]
Lessons from my 4 year old I enjoy doing school run because that is when I get to spend time with the kids with their full attention on me… they are not not answering to other things calling for their attention, just me! This particular day, I had got donut for my little daughter(Lady A) […]
“There is nothing as beautiful as a girl who knows herself, getting married to a guy who has also found himself…” Guess what? You cannot totally know yourself or have found yourself before you get married. loll! but it is absolutely brilliant to have a great sense of worth. As a single girl, you might […]