The Memory Box…

The first time I saw a memory box was in a family member’s home, this was a child we all anticipated and made plans around her birth, I just couldn’t understand that all we had was the box. My feelings were misplaced, I immediately swung into cooking. What do you say to the parent that […]

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A wife and Mom Dilemma.

Who gets more help around the house from hubby when they are sick?  So I chopped a bit of my finger this week while cutting sweet potato for my family. Hmmmmm! Let me just say I saw motherhood in a different light( I would shed some light on this someday)  Let us enter the gist proper, […]

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Friendship and The Realities.

I stumbled on this series on DSTV called ‘a million little things’ and it got me thinking, Let me tell you the story first before I share my thoughts. It was about  four friends and it opened with one of them killing himself and while they were breaking the news, another friend was so close […]

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Say No! Choose You.

Just say No! I have never been a Yes man but I find it hard to say No sometimes especially to friends and families, at the end of the day after taking on the task, I get burnt out and almost start resenting the person. Feeling like they are not considerate enough. One day Mr […]

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You Are In Charge!

No matter how much I emphasise on feelings, I cannot stop talking about it because your feelings can change the trajectory of your life, Yes it is that deep! There are days that are really not so fabulous and it is like the whole universe is on your case!!!! You want to power through, but […]

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