Yesterday we did the ‘Just Ask’ series and some people have some questions, I would have loved to answer right now but I would be MIA for sometime and this particular person reminded me to post this for her so I am trusting my commenters to give her the right advice. Would drop my advice when I am back. I discovered something recently, all men that approach me runs away once I say I have a son. Now my question is this, Is it wrong for me to say I have a child? Should I lie, Should I keep mute until we get so serious or maybe even get married. I met this young man recently that seemed really good until I told him, I have a son… All of a sudden, he stopped calling and reduced the way we chat and gradually broke the little channel of communication we had left, all because I mentioned that I have a son.