As I sit here typing this, I am arguing with my two year old  on why she should sleep instead of watch television, she is saying some things I don’t understand but in it, there is a “NO!”. There are clothes scattered everywhere and I couldn’t be bothered, to crown it up, Mrpossible is not in town.I wish I could tell you my day was amazing and this is the only glitch, I have had to face today

I woke up this morning very lazy but I knew I had to drag myself to the kitchen to fix babyJ (as you cannot just lie in bed and sing Bruno Mars’s “today I don’t feel like doing anything”) that was after a major tantrum by my little angel, I finally went back to the room, feeling that I would cross some major milestones but No! The laundry I did some days ago was stirring at my face, so I had to put them away. After folding and making the room tidy, we went for lunch and right there was tantrum number two, which went down with my recipient taking two spanks on her bum, just so I don’t lose my head,sometimes you just have to spank them  or walk away if not you could lose your mind… Do I need to tell you how hard it is to feed the kid? Gosh! I spend 1:30 minutes feeding her just one meal, with begging, shouting, cartoon and threat…hahahaha, how do they get easily distracted?

I finally decided to rest by watching a nice movie,though I met it half way(which is the usual nowadays, you can hardly start or end any movie), while watching, I noticed there was peace and quiet, I almost got carried away by it but decided to check on babyJ or do I say auntyJ, where did I find the madam? In my room, all the clothes I had suffered to fold away were scattered here and there, she even had some she was bringing downstairs as souvenir, What to do?  I just looked at her, asked her why she did it and moved on as I have learnt it is better to choose my battle with kids. Well, I am not arranging it again, at least not today, today I am okay with not being a super-mum and I intend to rock every second of it.

So mums I understand everyday is not perfect,you cannot always be a superwoman , enjoy the not so perfect moments and don’t sweat it, don’t beat yourself up, nobody is keeping records and YOU ARE TRULY AMAZING! Sssssh! She has slept finally, I better go do same too. Gist me about your ‘not so super-mum’ day?