This was another question from the ‘Just ask‘ series, What is your advice? I have a friend that slept with her colleague at work thinking they were actually in love but right now he has told other guys in the office please what can she do to avoid the shame? The deed has already been done, she cannot leave her work place because of shame so the best thing is to ignore the boy and the story he is spreading around(na small pikin they worry am), She should rise above, There is a way she would ignore the story and the boy and people will start doubting what he is saying, she shouldn’t keep malice with him but she shouldn’t be friendly with him either, she just greet him the way she greets other colleagues, before you know, he would be looking like a liar.Please Note I am not saying this is a recipe for after sex, don’t just sex that guy and save yourself the drama.
