When we got pregnant, we kind of had this un-said agreement that baby J should not feel neglected when we have another kid. So during pregnancy, no matter how hard it was, we bent over backward

for her  and also introduced her  to the baby bump so she would come to terms with my growing bump, appreciate and love it  and also know we are still here for her. I realized over doing it when 6 weeks to delivery I had to go on bed rest as I was two centimetres dilated due to carrying babyJ and just acting like everything was the same.

When hubby came over, he took over  the job of making babyJ feel like she is leaving in ‘la-la land…’ at least we tried our best with a little slips here and there.

As I sit here typing, she just woke up, normally she would come for a cuddle and sleep back but today she just looked at me, I was already adjusting even though I held Adescosco in my hands and next thing I know, she turned the other way and slept off… She has finally caught on! Adèscosco is here to stay. She will not go back anywhere, things can never be the same but we have enough love to go around both of them, I hope she understands, she will always be our first but she is no longer the only one….

What did your kid do that made you know they have finally caught on or come to acceptance that he/she is not the only one? and what were the things you did to make your first baby less threatened when there was another baby on the way?