This social media sha, it has come for our good and bad too… Especially when it comes to the pictures we take or videos we put up, they say a picture says a thousand words, well what is your picture saying? Someone would be singing and all you can see is popping boobs, almost bursting out of your screen or guys would put up pictures with alot of drinks on the table, from henessy to Jack Daniels, trying to say, “Yup !I turn up every saturdayand I can afford the expensive drinks of life…”NEWSFLASH! no one wants a drunkard for a husband.lol

Let me just focus on pictures and especially to ladies but guys if you see anything that concerns you here, please grab it!!!!!

I was going through Facebook recently and saw a picture of a guy and a girl, probably his girlfriend and you need to see the comments, first of all, her boobs were so out that it wasn’t even fair and trust guys to say stuff to their guy, one particularly stuck to my brain, “you be strong harvester” lolll! What exactly is this guy harvesting? It took me back to when I was younger and I took a picture with a guy that carried me, in innocence, I showed my parents and my dad who is the last person to ever talk about relationship just asked why I took such, I felt it was nothing and it was just another style of pics, well at the end my dad ripped the picture into pieces, told me that this picture can make people see me in a different light in other words, my conscience may be clear but the picture speaks volume, after all no one is going to see my conscience when they see that picture, I must admit I was upset but now I understand very well, I am not saying , taking fun pics are bad but what are you showing… Some pictures are outrightly bad, they just tell the a story, don’t take kissy kissy pictures, don’t take pictures of your ass and put up as your dp, how do you want people to comment? Nice asset perhaps? Don’t take picture you won’t like your future spouse to see you in and if you have those kind of pictures with people beg them to give you back, tell them to get it off their walls or any form of social media. Please the only person you can take pictures with anyhow is your husband and even with that, not all is for the world to see… Imagine a friend of your husband is a friend to your ex and he has seen you in some kind of pictures before, or your hubby/Fiance sees old pictures and he is amazed, thinking to himself, “what else don’t I know about this girl?…hmmmm”. Let us not be the one shooting ourselves and blaming others.

I remember my dad after tearing the picture told me, you don’t know who you would be tomorrow and what this picture will do to you.

Guys protects us ladies too, if you love us very well do the needful, then you can take all the pictures and post on every social media platform.

A little about videos,  some of us have become ‘aspiring little kardashians’ who are you trying to attract when you put up some kind of videos/ picture? You simply attract what you send across and because you got 100 likes in 3 minutes from some people that don’t know better, you start feeling like a celebrity all of a sudden…Please before you put any picture or video up, ask yourself, “What am I selling and who the heck is buying? or who am I attracting?