If you can remember when I first started this blog, I wrote an article called The little thingsand yes I still believe in it but I have been asking myself, how do you spot a new wife? Are there some things she  does that just set are apart? There is an adage that ‘a new broom/hoover sweeps/”hoov” better,’ but you know, as the broom gets older, things starts breaking off and it is no longer as effective, it might even turn to broom for Ewedu…lol Some of us are pros when it comes to spotting a new couple, all the hands holding, almost cuddling on the road and the shiny ring…lol. As a new wife there were things I did that I still do but not as much what about you? Picking Out His Clothes For The Next Day: I still do it but not as much, most times now I just suggest…lol! Imagine today I was asked to help with the clothes picking and I almost lost my mind, I wasn’t sure if I was right with colour combination, as I tried to find the shoes that would fit perfectly with his trousers. I even had to ask for his suggestion, meanwhile,before I was a pro. Making Breakfast: Hmmmm…MrPossible leaves sometimes at 5 am and latest 6:00, trust me by then I am on snooze because after handling the two kids day and night, even Mr Possible sometimes, (if you know what I mean “winks”), 4 am is not when I want to wake up. But guess what? I still do it, not just all the time and when I do it, he knows it is soooooo worth it; Most times I just point the cornflakes for the bobo to help himself I cannot come an kee myself. Request A Call: Well when I just moved to lagos after wedding, when hubby goes to work, I tell him ‘call me when you get there’ because as a Warri girl, when you enter lagos the first time see-ing how they drive, you are afraid for anyone you know driving in Lagos, but now I just call him later in the day to check on him…. Kissing Goodbye to Work: Yep! I still do that,Inshort I take it personal, especially when he doesn’t, and he says he did not want to wake me up…a beg let us not joke with the kiss o, If you like wake me up, we are talking about a kiss here…lol Was it new spouse syndrome I had? Well are there things you have stopped or almost stopped doing? How do you spot a new couple? The truth is this, you cannot keep doing everything you started with when you got married but don’t forget the little things…hand holding, cuddling, kissing, saying he looks good, don’t forget those things that made you guys, ‘You’…
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