As I am writing this, I cannot help but whistle Yemi Alade’s song ” see me see trouble, bobo you go marry me oh…today today”

If you missed proposal episode 1 and 2 then click (1 and 2)

I graduated in September and hinted coming home in November, heck! I already had a ticket for November, I pushed ticket backwards without telling Mrpossible, so I asked him to help me go pick up my things at the airport as I would be sending my things home before I arrived, guess who he picked up when he got there? Me!! Of course! Hehehe, I was becoming a master at pranking, that’s what we call it. I stayed with my sister in lagos for a while, my destination was Warri but I was deceiving myself that I am in lagos to help my pregnant sister when all I was in Lagos for is MAN! September came and passed, No ring, October…no ring! November… I beg let me go back to my father’s house, because if i am in warri all this things may not get to me…hehehe. Did I tell you our parents coincidentally met, with my dad’s conversation, he had already given me out to their family…lol, If you were me, you would think everything was settled right? well, No o

In November, My sister gave birth, so I really had work to do in lagos, while I was doing Omugwo, bobo was there, visiting and all, then I was about to go to warri, all of a sudden he started telling me not to go, My mind, I am like ” what the hell? ring I nor get,nothing  nothing and you just like my company, i am going jor” I gave one last visit and that day was so romantic, coincidentally we talked about all our pranks with his friend , it was just beautiful, it was a day we went down memory lane and Mrpossible was too excited, i was in the kitchen , when he ran to the kitchen and was peeping, lool, when I caught  him and asked what he wanted, he just laughed and said nothing, well trust me, I started suspecting again… All of a sudden he was like, let us go out, lets go to the beach, let us go and have fun…All my antenna was up, I said this boy wants to propose , did I tell you he pushed my flight so I won’t leave that day ( even you would suspect too na)

Well, we went to the beach, when we got there, we danced, did everything, ate small chops, took some drinks , then went by the beach and started gisting about how we have faired these years, I noticed his pocket was a bit swollen so I asked what was there, he said , keys and when he brought it out…it was really keys,(bubble bursted). We were in that beach for four hours gisting and  I got very tired because there was no ring. After everything, I told him, let us start going, before thesauri girl in me comes out, as I got up because we were sitting on the sand, he stayed back and held my hands…lol! this time I was not thinking of anything again, then he asked, I pull him up, I was like beg get up jor and this was the conversation that transpired.

Mrpossible:(Kneeling down and trying to dust himself from the sand) I know, you thought I would propose to you today

Me: Oh well, I did, but I don’t anymore so don’t bother about that (aggressive much!)

Mrpossible: ha! babe, I know how your mind works, the day I will propose to you , you will be caught off guard, we would just be in traffic on somewhere like 3rd mainland bridge, I would come out of the car and  just take your hands( he took my hands, then he started saying plenty nice things and held the wrong finger)

The Warri girl in me,won’t take a chill, I told him you don’t even know the right finger, I also threatened that if he repeat any of this words he is using in this fake proposal, I would be upset. loll at that point, I tried to  pull him up with the hand he held me by, saying , Let us go home, all I heard as i turned, hands till on his hand ( you are the sweetest part of my life, would you marry me, as i turned na so o, I saw a silver  box, I had a smile on my face, then I was like you are joking right? I said no! of course jokingly, then walked away a little and came back, my bobo was still on his knees and asked again ‘would you marry me?  I went down and said Yes, I was so excited, embarrassed and surprised that I did not even have a clue after all my gragra( tantrums), Immediately it dawned on me that I had the ring on my finger, I keep telling my friends that, Mrpossibles face changed, It just felt like…Oh wow! this is really forever, It got scary ..lol! I guess I knew it was forever but it did not really click till I had that ring on my finger…I told him , he looked different and that now its scary but he makes it easy for me to be sure he is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with. This was after several hugs and all.(clears throat)

Finally we could go home and relax, well I couldn’t sleep that night o…. the stuff just got real men…In december, it was introduction, March, wedding! yippee!

Looking back, this was the best decision i made, I married my best mate, the only guy that can handle me, the one who laughs at most of my excesses. Yep! I married Mrpossible 3 years ago today.

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