Seriously I have been meaning to address this on my blog but always forget…Er ehn, what is this about guys leaving their girlfriends without explanation?

I can count five different people that their very great boyfriend has left without any explanation whatsoever? First of all there wasn’t a fight, things were going well and fine , all of a sudden, Bobo would just say he cannot do again and keeps telling her, “it is not you, its me”…how is that suppose to help her in anyway? Okay it is you but what is it about you, that is making you want to leave me?’ Or don’t she deserve that much information? The one that irritates me the most is when the boy starts acting up i.e not calling as usual, not texting, dodging her, not visiting and the girl tries to find out what is wrong with the relationship then the guy says “NOTHING we are fine” Oh so I am now a psycho ehn, that don’t know when something is wrong? What about this excuse ” A lot is happening right now in my life, I can’t share with you, when I sort it out, I’ll let you know” If he is sorting out things that he cannot share, just dump him like a hot bag of potato’ There was one I handled that the guy just blanked the girl, he will not call or anything and would also not pick her call, from the blues o, all of us that were just observers were surprised. Even If your Pastor has told you, she is the one that will make your 10kobo not become 11 kobo , She deserves to know what exactly is happening or what has happened, she should know if she should move on or stay, you owe her that much! Don’t just sit there and think she would figure it out herself, that is just daytime wizardry…lol

Incase you don’t know this is what you cause when you leave a girl this way-

She is torn and totally broken

She starts second guessing herself… Was it the day I did this or the day I did that?

Self-esteem Issues may creep in…” how am I sure the thing that made this guy go away will not make  the other guy run away?

Pressured to make it work in other relationships: She would almost be afraid to be herself with some other person because she is not exactly sure where it went wrong with you and she would start slaving to make a new relationship work .

This is what I am saying guys, we understand if it you want to walk out, after-all, not all relationship should end in marriage but the least you owe your girl is an explanation or just say something; Don’t just leave her hanging out in the cold because if she prays for you!!!!hehehe…Ladies if you have ever been hurt this way, it is okay, It was for the best, IT JUST WASN’T MEANT TO BE IN THE BEGINNING and nothing is actually wrong with you, because he refused to communicate, let us leave all the blame on him or what do you think guys?Has this ever happened to you.