This past  Big brother Africa hotshot, I guess most of us saw one particular male contestant that was so in-touch with his emotions, oh well, it was Tayo Faniran, the Nigerian contestant and he shed tears on various occasions to the extent, one time on stage while crying,IK the  coordinator told him to put himself together and man up…loll

Well after the show,Mrpossible and I  pretty much analyzed it, to my annoyance, He did not take sides with me and there was this one thing that dragged on and on for a very long time, how much crying is too much for a man? One of us was of the opinion that a man shouldn’t cry all the time while the other differed strongly saying everyone is allowed to express their emotions the way they deem fit…There was a very strong argument for and against that it took 70percent of our gist time, someone even in mockery decided to end their argument saying ” with this few points of mine”…. Oh yea! It turned into a ‘friggy’ debate and finally , I heard there is the male and female opinion when it comes to expressing your emotions through tears… So Ladies and Gentlemen, what do you think? Is a guy allowed to cry a lot? Do you just hate it when a man cries all the time? if yes what is the permissible way a man should express his emotions and how much tears is too much? Have you dated a guy that is in-touch with his emotions, what do you do when he cries all the time? One of us concluded saying, so if the man is always crying then how will the lady express her emotions?

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