I feel everyday when a lady tries to dress up she unknowingly makes a choice, either to be sexy or extra comfortable and most times our comfort don’t really look gorgeous.  Don’t you just hate it that the men don’t have to do as much work as we all have to do… We wear the heels, we wear the fitted clothes, too much extra and then he comes out with his simple shoes, tees and  pants and almost floors you. I realised this one day when I was dressing up to stay at home, I would rather wear a very big shirt, or a big trouser so I am just free at home and you know that look can be sexy or scruffy, in short your hair and some other thing has to be on point to pull of the sexy look with a big jogger or an oversize shirt, don’t believe all those movies or music videos where the girls are effortlessly sexy in anything… Well as I picked up my big shirt, I immediately felt guilty…hehehe, hubby has not been in town for a while, so since he was around , I had to change to a simple top and legging…(ls it me that will now look like wife that is not making an effort?Hell no!) oh how I hate to wear leggings when I am not going out, all the thug, the push , the pull…phew,!  That is the price I pay sometimes not to become like one of Mrpossible’s male friends …I finally made it out looking not too done but not scruffy meanwhile Mrp just threw on anything and he was looking good…Is it fair? A lady would even want to stay at home and be pressured not to be caught by an unannounced visitor looking bad, so she has to do a little something . What are you choosing today? What was your choice today when picking out what to wear? Sexy or extra comfortable?
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