The change of marriage shouldn’t just affect the lady alone; she changes her name to yours, you pretty much get an indoor restaurant and free “bad thing” whenever you like… I hate when a man gets married and still wants all the perks of bachelorhood, I feel when we get married we are both changed, […]
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Should You Tell Your Ex You Are Getting Married
Yesterday was so much fun! A friend I haven’t seen in 15years came over and we had an amazing time catching up(hugs Ijay). After I had asked her all the normal questions, We dived into relationship gist, everyone that knows me, knows I must talk about relationship when we catch up, and gist led to gist next […]
Two Virgins Wed! My Thoughts… What’s Yours?
Two Virgins wed, was one of the headlines of the story that got the internet buzzing, I am a christian, I am for keeping yourself before your wedding but I sincerely have a problem with this. They married as virgins,that is a beautiful story but putting it out on social media to me seem ……(fill […]
Sexy or Extra Comfortable? Choose This Day…
I feel everyday when a lady tries to dress up she unknowingly makes a choice, either to be sexy or extra comfortable and most times our comfort don’t really look gorgeous. Don’t you just hate it that the men don’t have to do as much work as we all have to do… We wear the […]
Wife versus Mum…Choose this day guys.
There are so many advice given when it comes to a man and his mother; some would say, to win a man’s heart, love his mother as you would yours, never tell your husband anything bad about his mother, don’t go into any sort of battle with your mother in- law, you will never win!!! […]
Finding Mr Right…What Is Your Story?
Getting the right guy doesn’t come easy for some of us and some of us are so blessed that we just get it right like it is a miracle…As the saying goes, most times you would have to kiss a whole lot of frog to find your Prince, though someone’s frog can be another’s prince, […]
The plight of a new housewife…
I just did not think I would get to this point. Two months ago I had a busy life! Juggling between wedding preparations and a job, I barely had enough time to relax until the evenings. I also had a full family where if you got your private space, it was golden!I had a few […]
What would you do, if you were in my shoes?
This was a comment under compliments a married man shouldn’t pay, if you missed the story click here. I was offline at the time so I decided to publish it today… I have facebook trolled my husbands page and found that he is telling other females that he loves their eyes… being a woman, a married one […]
Who are you getting married to and why
With all due respect, I beg to ask who are we making the fathers and mothers of our kids? Nowadays I see a lot of hasty decision made on the premise of lack of control, sex and alcohol and the result is a baby, then a marriage follows immediately like that would fix everything but […]
Compound names – Yay or nay?
I got this gist about compound names and I just asked myself, what’s the fuss? I decided to share with you guys. I think it is a trend lately that when people get married, the girl adds her husbands name to her previous surname. While I don’t personally care about it, like I pretty much never […]